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2021.09.18 02:44 Sagrero04 UZI SUPREMACY
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2021.09.18 02:44 random_guy_somewhere How does Hulu have a “Gina” section but not a “Heist” section?
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2021.09.18 02:44 charawarma Updated the crabitat
We added some vines like so many of y'all have, but as soon as I sprayed them, they started bleeding green dye. I assumed this was bad so I took them back out, cleaning up anywhere it bled. Any advice on where to buy ones that won't do that?
Note: we got the whole set up (and crabs) from someone on FB. I'm not sure where the stuff came from originally.
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2021.09.18 02:44 BestChef47 H: BE Lever Action W:10k caps
2021.09.18 02:44 emelia_marie [NM] Episode 7 Millennium Falcon $204, 102 spots @ $ 2 each
Item Name Set Number: 75105
Lego Price: $176
Shipping: $28 to zone 6 from California via USPS. Dimensions: 24” L x 15” W x 3.5” H Weight: 6 lb 6 oz
Raffle Total/Spots: 104@ $2 each
Price justification: Bricklink 3 month avg
Call spots: Y
Spot limit per person: no
Duration of spot limit:
Location(Country): Bay Area, Ca
Will ship international: Y—winner pays difference outside CONUS
Timestamp pics: (Together in one album, please) https://imgur.com/a/UNnHk3W
Description: [NM] Episode 7 Millennium Falcon
Payment required w/in 20 minutes of raffle filling.
PayPal payments are to be Friends and Family only with NO COMMENTS. CashApp payments should have NO COMMENTS. Comments will result in a permanent ban
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2021.09.18 02:44 Numerous-Barber5618 🚨 Ay u! yeah u stop scrolling and talk 2 me! 🚨
Hey there, currently fuck sleep schedule so im boredd out of my mind so if any1 wants to chat im down. I lovee gaming, fashion and i skate and play chess a lil, but im pretty awful at both. I can literally talk about anything idc :) 18btw
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2021.09.18 02:44 Obvious_Clerk5316 I am new to cacti growing and received this cutting . I cut the top off because it had no rot. Should I cut the rest into pieces or just leave it?
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2021.09.18 02:44 Holiday_Farm_7839 Does anybody know any illuminated dog parks i can take my dog to during the evening?
2021.09.18 02:44 Shiooo222 To all the proud hebephiles on the internet, name a real life girl/tv character/ celebrity between ages 11-14 that’s extremely hot and sexy, describe your feelings about banging them, jerking off to them or what?
2021.09.18 02:44 mr-optomist Another contender
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2021.09.18 02:44 Dependent_Method_446 Studios Business Trailer: The Addams Family 2 & The Boss Baby 2 [ravedj]
2021.09.18 02:44 therlds $$$Busco chicas que vendan pack, nudes, fotos etc $$$
2021.09.18 02:44 orli27p PPR who wins?
2021.09.18 02:44 Forgetabl Looking for raid invite to mesprit
2021.09.18 02:44 OstrichNeither Is 'This is a mans world' by James Brown a sexist song?
2021.09.18 02:44 CRAZYCOOKIE08 Is there no play with others in ventures?
I wanted to grind ventures but I can’t seem to do it alone, and I don’t want to have to ask my friends to get on every single time I want to play it, so is there some requirement for it or is it just not a thing in ventures?
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2021.09.18 02:44 Stereodog Worth it?
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2021.09.18 02:44 Zeera1 [fluff] what are wildcat slots?
2021.09.18 02:44 Which-Passenger9814 [Recruiting] Ragnar Bros. | TH9+ | Clan Level 2 | Donating/wars/social/Snapchat
Looking for th9+ Clan members NO RUSHED BASES
Hey guys! New to this group but I’m looking for new members for the clan. We’ll be doing wars at least 4 days a week and heavy focus on donations. We don’t have many people rn but on the bright side we don’t have to clean up the house.
I’m looking to get at least 10 solid people and plan on starting to do league once we get a good group. You must make a donation or send a chat before you get any troops from active members. I took over the clan today and have been in it for a while. It’s the only clan I’ve stayed in for a while so it’s near and dear to my heart. You have my personal guarantee I’ll stick around as long as you will.
Fr tho, don’t judge the name cuz I did take over this and did not have a say. Join up
P.S. automatic elder status if you’re a Steelers fan.
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2021.09.18 02:44 techflight65 What are you going to dress up as for halloween?
2021.09.18 02:44 arnezuara LIMERENCE: How to Stay Unattached
Before going back into the wilderness or dating men, we need to ensure that you are armored with extensive knowledge on patterns of relational attachment, strong boundaries, unyielding standards, and adequate safeguarding techniques. Even though we extensively discuss the intricate tactics that men use on women, it is important to do the necessary inspection on how our minds respond to potential romantic prospects.
Today I want to share my findings with you on the condition called limerence. I believe that the term was once mentioned on this subreddit, so I quickly took interest in doing some research on it.
In this post, I will:
— Define the term to gain a better understanding of what it stands for. — Talk about the symptoms of limerence and how they present themselves. — Brainstorm the methods/tactics that can be used to combat it. — Share some helpful resources: resource 1, resource 2.
Limerence is first and foremost a condition of cognitive obsession. According to Wikipedia, this condition may be caused by low serotonin levels in the brain, comparable to those of people with obsessive–compulsive disorder.
Limerence is considered to be an unhealthy obsessive state in which an individual becomes all-consumed with securing or maintaining emotional reciprocation from their object of affection, known as the limerent object, or simply LO.
Limerence exists as a constant state of anxiety, which is focused solely upon the perceived reciprocity from the LO. The goal of limerence is achieving emotional reciprocation, so compulsive behaviors are contingent on perceived feedback from the LO.
— Intense emotional, romantic and sexual desire for an LO. This may be described as a state of being ‘madly in love’, you may feel as if you have never felt ‘this way’ about anyone else before.
— Constant daydreaming about an LO. It distracts you from tending to your normal routine, as you fantasize about them quite often. The fantasies you have about an LO might involve rescuing or being rescued.
• Obsessive focus on everything that they are doing. You want to know whom they’re talking to or spend time with. Learning this information becomes your daily focus, it seems as if everything revolves around them.
• Intrusive and obsessive thinking about an LO. You’re spending more time thinking about your LO than anyone, or anything else. They become the central focus in one’s mind, often to the exclusion of other people around them.
— Idealization, where their good qualities are often magnified and negative qualities are minimized. This may happen in your own head, or while talking to other people about them.
— Orchestrating events or initiative to facilitate communication with an LO. You often find yourself ‘looking for excuses’ to contact them, initiate conversations, or meet them in real life.
— Impaired functioning and extreme lack of concentration in normal routine. You find yourself unable to think or act clearly without your mind being preoccupied with an LO.
• Intense need for reciprocity, where you experience intense joy or extreme despair depending on whether or not an LO reciprocates. It seems as if your mood operates in extremes and is heavily dependent on their treatment.
• Feelings of euphoria induced by an LO’s presence. The connection and feelings while with this person may be high, or even euphoric. This can be felt whether you’re in a relationship with them or not.
• Severe mood swings. You are constantly assessing the feelings of the other person to be sure they feel the same in return.
How to Combat Limerence
I believe that all of the aforementioned symptoms have been thoroughly discussed on FDS.
We post content to remind each other not to “obsess” over or get emotionally attached to men who are, oftentimes, are only in the beginning stages of vetting. Some of us tend to get overly excited, only to end up disappointed or even hurt.
To this day, I see a lot of women on this sub fall prey to this. There has been an influx of posts, where women have put men on pedestals as early as one/two dates, in for bare minimum, or some other vague characteristics.
That is okay, though: we want you to seek adequate advice on askFDS! Do post and ask for guidance — we are here to help you avoid or escape from more hurt, abuse, and other forms of mistreatment.
Nonetheless, I believe that a lot of us have struggled with something similar to limerence (be careful not to self-diagnose here, please). Many can relate to some of the symptoms, I am sure.
So, how do you ensure that you stay level-headed when dating? What steps can you take to ensure that you stay detached and vet men ruthlessly?
Resource: Example of Strategy
— Talk to a trusted, trauma-informed therapist about limerence/ROCD, or other conditions. Discuss with them the possibility, but do not rush to self-diagnose. Ensure that you have a proper, well-organized treatment plan.
• Based on the practice guidelines of the American Psychiatric Association, the best evidence-based OCD/ROCD treatments include the combination of serotonin-reuptake inhibitors (SRIs) and cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), particularly the technique of exposure and response prevention (ERP).
— Maintain a log of boundaries. You have to know what your boundaries are, otherwise you risk falling prey to abusive, manipulative men. When someone attempt to erode or breach your boundary, you need to act accordingly.
— Maintain a dating journal. In order to ensure that you stay level-headed, take notes about the men you go on dates with, rate them ruthlessly according to your non-negotiable, FDS standards. Organize it, if you will.
— Maintain a roaster of men. This means that you date multiple men, constantly generating more prospects through OLD (not recommended), social outings, hobbies, and else. Having men on rotation not only ensures that you have an abundance mindset, it helps you critically analyze your options, with no remorse of loosing some.
— Filter the information that you share with men. Of course, do not disclose any of your traumas, insecurities, and other sensitive information to ensure your emotional, physical and mental safety. Share just enough, then sit back, and relax — let him do the talking.
— Maintain non-negotiable sources of fulfillment. Create space for them, as well. This includes spending quality time with friends and family. It may also include budgeting, gardening, shopping, doing yoga, or painting –– whatever brings you fulfillment, joy, and happiness. No man should ever qualify as an exception for you to give any of them up, be it for 10 minutes or more. He will never come before anything you consider dear and joyful — if his presence threatens to sabotage or take them away, he needs to be dropped instantly.
— Your time is the most valuable resource. Treat it like one! Allocate only 2 hours/week for two pre-reserved dates with men. A man has to fight against all odds just to get a chance to meet and spend time with you. Otherwise, he’s not serious. Your time is non-negotiable, it is precious, it is expensive. He has to be worth it, otherwise it’s a loss.
— Train your mindset. Train yourself to be immediately disgusted with any man who shows NV/LV signs. No matter how small the mistake or how long the relationship/marriage, he should be dropped instantly. As Russians say, “out of sight, out heart”.
— Cost-Benefit Analysis. Your every action should benefit you alone. It is his job to bring value into your life, your routine. Until he consistently proves to be HV and fulfills all of your conditions, he is not worth the investment.
So far, that is all I have to share with you today. Share your tips and tricks on how to stay unattached!
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2021.09.18 02:44 Im-a_dinosaur The weekend is here! I have ignored my personal health the past few months watching this event as it is defining my future. I urge you all to do as I've done the past few days and GO FIND SOME BEAUTY in the nature that surrounds you. In a post MOASS world this is the only sustainable way, imo. ♥️
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2021.09.18 02:44 sportsandcomicbooks1 The different Triss Merigolds
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2021.09.18 02:44 Lucky-Talisman Lucky Talisman - All The Way
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